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Marriage Made Better; The Promise of Couple Counselling

The way your love life has taken a beating might have made you question whether the first love you had for each other that may have seemed stronger than that of Romeo and Juliet was really love at all. The phase is quite unexpected but happens to the best of them. Feelings do have a shorter shelf life although that doesn’t mean it’s the end of the road where marriage is concerned. One is to commit and create something beautiful together and the other is to part ways. The mistake most couples make is assuming that just because their feelings are over, the relationship is doomed and that they would be better off apart. There is a huge chance of getting that conclusion challenged in counselling as well as getting a new lease as far as marriage life is concerned.

The aim of couple counselling is to enhance the couples connection. That involves taking back the hands of time to the moment where love came ever so naturally. Quite often than not the whole experience is exciting since good memories spring up. They are then ushered to a new phase that involves being honest about how their love spiraled into what it is at present. This gives insight to the counsellor on how to go about the process of reuniting the couple in tailor made manner. Their goals as a couple are also featured so as to lay a framework on which they can build on.

Another issue that is very important to address is the way issues get handled . Poor communication is detrimental to any marriage whatsoever. Pointing fingers has never once been a solution and are better off replaced with more effective solutions. What counselling does is that it seeks out alternative routes for couples to solve their issues. A value system that features tolerance , forgiveness and trust are made possible that way. It also brings about the aspect of vulnerability allowing for trust , intimacy, respect , a togetherness of sorts to be possible in instances where it might have been eroded like in cases of affairs or others.

In some cases staying in a relationship will do a couple more harm than good. It becomes very difficult for them as a couple to mend fences as a unit. This necessitates the need for them to actually part ways. Still even in this circumstances counselling is of utmost importance. This aids in helping them empty their pain and set them towards the path of forgiveness that brings about healing. They will in this way part ways in peace having cleared whatever issues that saw them break up in the first place making it possible for a fresh start.

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